of stammering for one hour. I want to share some more ways of
acceptance in this group for the benefit of those who had not attended
the NC at Coorg.A lot have been talked about acceptance of stammering in this forum and hence here I am going to write about HOW to accept and not WHY to accept stammering.
have informed that they had accepted their stammering by heart but
still they were not improving and further asked what went wrong with
them?. Understanding the meaning of ACCEPTANCE under the context of stammering is a complex one.It would take months and years to understood the real meaning.
of months. But after four years, now I understood that there are 100s
& 100s ways of acceptance and it is a life long learning.If we
understand one by one, our speech will definitely
improve and there is no doubt about it.
informing that I had written a leave letter for attending NC.I am a
Chief Engineer and my boss is a Managing director, a senior IAS officer.I have written a leave letter stating that to attend TISA NC at Coorg as Coordinator of Chennai chapter SHG,I
required 3 days leave. My MD already knew about my stammering and about
Chennai chapter activities.He called me and wished best of luck.I could
have got my leave sanctioned citing personal reasons but I reveled the real fact,thereby reduced my fear & shame of
stammering.This is one way of acceptance.
phone no … etc.Yes… Accept this also. This is one of the properties
of stammering.After telling your name with blocks, do not get angry or
disappointed yourself. Instead, just think it is one of the properties
of stammering and could do nothing about it as of now.If you think like
this, you can able to tell your name fairly well in 6 to 9 months time.
This is just like two ‘-‘ves makes a ‘+’.
but also get rid of fear and shame of stammering from our respective
wives. For someone it would take years to accept his stammering with
his wife. So I request while attending SHG meetings, those who are living with wives and parents, pl bring them for atleast one meeting and observe
stammering. I wish to add that the above said ways are the ‘MUST’ one
for all of us for early acceptance of our stammering and avoiding these means diluting our acceptance.