Now, I have understood one thing very clearly!
It is not going to work at all if I will be putting my whole efforts in curing my stammer.I am surely going to stay unmarried forever if I will make a stand that I will marry only after curing my stammer.And this will be cruelty towards self……..Come on, I too need a wife ha ha ha ha ha ha 🙂 🙂
But there are high chances that I will improve considerably if I works holistically,i.e. I want a good girl in my life so I need to improve my speech.
In this case, my attention would not be completely captured by stuttering and there is a very good chance that i will improve my speech.
This is a holistic approach.
Take the example of Hrithik Roshan, he wanted to be a good actor.His motto was to become a good actor, and for that, he needed to gain some weight and make some muscles; he needed to learn dance and acting and off course he needed to improve his communication skills.So, his aim of life was not to GET RID of stuttering.Otherwise, i am sure we would not have such an excellent complete actor as he is.
I read somewhere that he used to practice for hours; not because his aim of life was to improve his stutter.But….but…….his motto was to become an excellent actor.
So, we all PWS……everyone of us can take a note from his hollistic approach and let us work towards our main motto in life and off course work on our speech towards achieving that target.
We needn’t to dedicate our lives to work on stuttering.Life is a lot more than stuttering.
Please don’t make it a monster unnecessarily.
If some day, you block while talking to a shopkeeper or ordering in a restaurant, don’t worry……it is not illegal….no one is going to put you behind the wars.And, similarly, if someday, you talk fluently in those situations, then no one is going to reward you with a PARAM VEER CHAKRA.
So, let us use our minds, be some logical and lets think beyond stuttering.
This post of mine is specially meant for all the new members of our TISA family most of them are surely very young and they have the potential to achieve anything in their lives.So, with they will make full use of opportunity called life and will not prove a martyr just fighting stammering all their lives……
P.s. – By the way folks, don’t take my words about my marriage seriously. Wo to maine thoda post ko thoda interesting aur spicy banane ke liye likha tha…:-) 🙂