go for evening walk in nearby one huge park. Day before yesterday I got a
thought “Hey why not do an experiment, talk to strangers”. And actually this thing
was come up in last SHG meeting. The new guy his name is “Manoj”. He was going
to some speech therapy, I forgot the name. He was sharing his experience. In
his speech he told that “That guys told us to go and talk to strangers”.
thinking that’s a good thing. This builds my confidence and pushes myself to do
some new. Because I am always want to be in my comfort zone.
comes but I need energy to implement this thing. I was thinking “Hey this not
help, what others thinking about you. If they laugh or they say something”. These
kind of many thoughts were shooting in my mind. And I was in fear and my heart
started racing. But another thought came “Hey no you have to talk this will
to myself “let it be what others think” and “accept yourself”. After that I saw
one old man he was around 60+. I thought “I have to start from this guy because
he could understand things, and I am sure he will never laugh on my stammering”.
something like this, (old guy = OG, Me = M)
sir, (he looked)
OG : Yes
M: if you are okay can I talk to you
M: I thought “Hey its easy”. Sir I have stammering problem you know what
OG: Ya I know.
M: I said “my doctor suggested me that you have to talk to strangers, so it
will build up your confidence and speech problem”.
around 1 hour and he suggested me some tricks, yoga and some useful tips. He was
really a nice guy. Then today I also talked to one new person and approach was
same. And I really felt confident now.
to thanks TISA and SHG Bangalore. Those guys are really nice who came to meeting
and share our thoughts.