Mmmyself S-s-s-sanjay N-n-negi and I am a person who ssstammers all my life till the very moment. I am 19 years old residing in Delhi. Basically I’m from Himachal pradesh but for graduation I came to Delhi. I am pursuing BA from PGDAV College Delhi University. I denied all my life that I stammer, indeed I was very ashamed of my stammering and always hide it. I always considered stammering as something evil or bad and I shouldn’t do it. And that’s how this stammering issue becomes a major part of my life. I was so desperate to just get rid of stammering that with all the passing days I get more and more despaired. I was so devastated that l wasted my past 2 years in Delhi just because of stammering. I was always in a hurry to get cured from stammering that l did every quick things given on Internet which promises to cure stammering. And believe me after wasting my 2 years for a quick remedy for stammering without letting anyone know about my stammering l got nowhere.
My approach was that l wanted to cure my stammering as soon as possible, l substitute all the time when I spoke so that no one came to know that I stammer. I developed a hierarchy of situation from which l save myself to get confronted with. I stop calling on phones, l text all the time instead of calling. I avoid people, situation and talk very less so that l cannot get caught. But it was not a good thing for a long run.
And after a long search for eloquence my life took a turn and anyhow
I came in contact with TISA. My perception towards stammering gets totally changed . I realize that stammering is just a thing and shouldn’t be given so much importance that it ruin your life. I realize that stammering is our diversity, and I don’t need to be ashamed of it. I realize that it’s ok to stammer and didn’t need to hide it. I am in regular contact with SHG Delhi . I have attended 6-8 shg meetings and have hosted one of that meetings. My whole approach towards stammering has now been changed and now l am totally focused on my communication skills. I love to be the part of TISA and I am very very excited for the workshop on 22-23 April and hope that it helps me more to be a good communicator.
At last it’s ok to stammer and I am a proud stammrer.
- Saturday August 19th 2017“Don’t make assumptions. Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your … more
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