Hi , Everyone . I’m Bhupendra . Before writing this blog I failed in 24 interviews and recently selected in 25 th . So , Some learnings i get in this process i want to share with you all –
- Whenever i goes in interviews i keep saying myself , i will not stammer in this interview . and in this process i loose my confidence , eye contact , message and everything.
- I become so depressed and thinking due to my stammering I’m not selected . then my friends too says the same thing to me and i become much depressed , my parents asked me, we spends so much money on your education when you will give a offer letter to us . i dont have much support else than TISA , i sent mails to Sachin sir , Asked for help from harish sir , and whenever I’m more depressed share in on Tisa whats app group . This all things bought a positivness inside me . because the outside world is telling me you are a failure but my mentors in TISA telling me , Its a beginning of life . Be strong enough to face the hardtime , and it made me stronger .
- Recently i joined a gandhinagar communication workshop and seen , many people cracked the interviews with stammering . so why i cant ? Am i inferior than someone ? NO ! , Am i dont have proper Knowledge regarding my subject ? Yes , I have . So , why I cant do what other PWS had done before me . So, If its hard so it will remain always hard , i need to improve myself upto that level . i need to offer them those skills what they wanted in a employee.
- what i did ? This time i gone with mindset ; I WILL STAMMER . AND I DON’T WANT JOB , BUT I WILL ENJOY THE INTERVIEW . as after going through all interview i know what a recruiter want from a candidate – Discipline , Honesty , good communication skills , attitude , good body language , a smile which makes him comfortable . Thats it , and game is done . so , stammering is no where , i just mentioned it before interview I’m a Person Who Stammer . because i know if i will not say it still i will be not selected. so , lets do a experiment . and IT WORKED , HAKLAO MAGAR PYAAR SE WORKS ; IF YOU HAVE FAITH ON TISA , IF YOU HAVE FAITH ON PROCESS.
- So, If you are too passing though a hard time like i passed through . so , dont get depressed believe in process and love your stammer . accept yourself and have a confidence in you . you can achieve anything in you life ….. believe me …. ANYTHING !