My experience #4

Inaction……actually we stammerers think something magical will happen someday and we will get our fluency back…yes back….because most of us were fluent till the age of 4-5-6 etc …due to continuous negative self talk and stammering again and again , we have accepted that we are born stammer…..HaHa.. stammering is funny .. now a days i laugh at me and my fear vanish ….. someday i went to post office of enquiry…i stammered initially but i maintained eye contact with guy and passed  a smile….my stammering vanished…. i talked to him for 2-3 minutes without any major block….

so learning is that when we accept our stammering a part of us…because any way it is going with you wherever you go..so why not make peace with it,,,, We just have to work on our communication skills like eye contact , body language etc etc….

Avoidance… particularly me , i was reluctant to see myself stuttering but these days i have installed  a big mirror in my room … during each and every phone call ,,, i go in front of this mirror and want to know about my stammering but as soon as go there ,… i don’t get any major blocks ,,, apart from it , i do some short and long self talk in front of mirror … i want to explore my personality ,, how i speak ,, how is my body language and

…. Trust me when you sign a peace treaty with yourself ,,, life is going to be more peaceful and adventures than ever before.. you will fall in love the way you talk,,, soon you do this , your stammering will vanish away…Trust me….

 

Feel free to contact for any suggestion and self help,,,,,,,,,

Raman Maan

8285115785 … message me before calling ……

1 Comment
  1. satyendra srivastava 2 months ago

    Yes, Raman. You can deal with stammering only when you know about it. And to know your stammering, you need to befriend it- as you are doing. Otherwise, more you dislike it, worse it becomes; more you run away from it, harder it chases you.. So, a good motto is: Let mw know what my stammering is all about (NOT, I will conquer and kill my stammering one day! That macho idea does not work here- as we all have discovered sooner or later)

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