The Perfect Interview

Hello to all my busy stutter friends  :-). Today I want to share my experience of two days ago. Our college went to a campus placement in Chandigarh. Most of the students of my class did not prefer to go there because it was a tough competition and other colleges were also participating. Perhaps facing […]

A long journey

Recovery from stuttering mindset is a long – long journey. Why this is so? Why cant 10 sessions with a therpaist or a two week course help? Because underlying beliefs and values take a lot of time to change. For example, you may read somewhere: “Stammering is cool”. You may intellectually understand it but it […]

Can one day workshop help?

Stammering is a field rife with claims, counter-claims, guess, fMRI, genetic studies,  superstitions, old wives remedies etc. etc. You might see ads like “Cure stammering under nine minutes” and you will also find people supporting such initiatives! This makes a new entrant very skeptical, suspicious, doubtful and even cynical at times. What works? what does […]

Fair exchange?

Exchange is fair? Always? Perhaps not. For example look at this: “I give you 2 kilo Acceptance, you give me five meter fluency.” “I told about it in the interview.  I should get appointment letter now.” etc. etc. Sounds familiar. We all have done this kind of saudebazi consciously or very often, unconsciously- with everyone, […]

Measure ur Acceptance

Acceptance is the first step in recovery path and we all know its importance & benefits , we have learned many way to make our acceptance stronger like blogging,talking about stammering,not trying to hide it,bouncing etc etc and they really helps. I think acceptance has many characteristics like –Path of acceptance is not unidirectional,we can […]

HOW TO STRONG OUR ACCEPTANCE

We have a lot of talk about acceptance. Tisa says we have to work on acceptance first before adopting any stammering management technique. But most of the pws are always confuse how they can work on their acceptance. They think that talking on stammering with family and some close friends are enough to accept our […]

Want to quit? wait a minute..

“..Why I stammer,why i become a stammerer amongst all my cousins and friends– this thought is coming continuously to me? What is the process of desensitization? how can I remove the thought for the time being that I am a stammerer which is constantly hovering around me. I just want to be out of this […]

Dont watch this video..

Yes, dont watch this video and blame sachin afterwards. Dont even click. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LsKY1b9GxdM&feature=related I of course had great fun watching it, found Nina full of courage and common sense.. Wow, what a spirit! But dont watch it, if you have a weak liver, spleen or kidney.. And if you do click, do it at your […]

On the rock of Acceptance..

A young IPWS, who on my suggestion, attended a SHG meeting for the first time, reverted back to me with this honest feedback: It was nice to see for the first time that many people stammer like me. But this visit has killed whatever little hope I had. You mean to say, I will ahve […]

Emperor is naked

Many years ago a child could not see the magic robe of the emperor and cried- But he is naked!Of course people were silent as if they expected the sky to fall. Child’s parents also tried to keep the child quiet.. But soon there was a group of children at the street corner, chanting the […]