Sharmaofying or Haklaofying…we choose

Sharmaofying or Haklaofying…former or the for us to decide…i always dreaded the words like haklu, haklaofying and all…stuttering and stammering were still fine but not the hindi synonyms which sound very rude.

just a few months back i used to keep my words with me, not sharing anything 😛 though my heart saying..c’mon u coward say it out or die. lol it happens

After attending My very first SHG, things changed a lot for me. Though haven’t accepted it fully till now…but everything has a start…so does my acceptance. Hoping to accept if fully and avoid using substitutes words or hiding my stammer in front of those few people who don’t really matter but my mind say that, I gotta talk properly in front of him or her or else I’m dead meat.

After lots of courage and determination, started blogging and started with the word that i used to hate the most but now i have to accept it, c’mon i just stammer and it is does have a therapy, I haven’t killed anyone so why the frowning face and the tension.
Anywayz cya for now…was feeling a bit low today…feeling better now. Have fun. Be Good.

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Post Author: Harish Usgaonker

4 thoughts on “Sharmaofying or Haklaofying…we choose


    (April 17, 2010 - 9:49 pm)

    ok ppl…pardon the few typo errors and the punctuations


    (April 18, 2010 - 3:29 am)

    Great beginning!
    I too was at one time frightened of the Hindi words for stammering- but if I wrote an autobiography now, I would merrily call it- "Ek Hakle ki aatmkatha".. why not? what is the big deal?
    Finally- if I have a choice- it is better to be 'shameless' than 'fearful'..


    (April 18, 2010 - 2:49 pm)

    Congratulations Mr. Vivz… and i fully agree with your vivz….

    Even I didnt enjoy watching the movie "Pyar mein kabhi kabhi" , as there is one character in it who stammers, and he is being named "haklu"…

    But then, it's ok… just like some are called chotu or lambu… we are called haklu… so be it!


    (April 21, 2010 - 6:13 am)

    Nice post, keep moving 🙂

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