Thanks to Hetal (Surat), I had something worthwhile to share with our group. It was a video clip: Vinod Thakur in India talent khoj.
Surendra, Pawan, Vineet, Nishu and myself were there. Mid way through, we paused, where one of the judges says to Vinod : You exude a positive energy..
We paused and asked ourselves: what kind of energy we, the PWS exude in a typical interaction, most of the time? Pawan was quick and honest: by and large negative! We go around with lot of negative energy and keep infecting others, without realizing. No wonder that we turn out to be rather lonely, un-social people. Uncomfortable with ourselves and making others too, uncomfortable in our presence. This is something deeper than just “fluency” or even “communication skills”. Wherever we go, we carry our portable “fish basket”.
How do we free ourselves form this “victim/ persecution” mentality?
By accepting it, talking and writing about it.. doing something -anything, about it, rather than sulk and wait for the world to make “compensation” to us..