Don’t be confused. This is not a write up telling surgery is a solution for stammering, but a write up about the hernia surgery I had to undergo recently, 13-Jan-2011 to be exact. When I contacted Dr. Sachin to tell him about the surgery, he told me to write something inspirational after the recovery. I was wondering how to write something which would inspire the PWS. Later I could realize that surgery was something which I didn’t want to happen in my life, but had to undergo. Similarly stammering is also something which we do not want, but have to tackle. So, in the end, I though of writing how I decided to face the surgery.

Some times back, I had read the book ‘The new earth’ by Eckhart Tolle, again on the recommendation of Dr. Sachin. Incidentally, I also happened to see a write up on ‘The power of now’ in the TISA blog, which is another book written by Tolle. Some of the points of his book were in my mind, as I had completed the book only a few days before I decided to go for the surgery.

One of the points was “A situation you find yourself in may have something to do with it. Action may be required to change the situation or remove yourself from it. If there is nothing you can do, face what is and say, “Well, right now, this is how it is. I can either accept it, or make myself miserable.””

I was diagnosed with Hernia around two years back and the surgeon told me not to go for the surgery at that time as it was not troubling me, though I might have to undergo it at a later point of time.

I was scared of surgery especially general anesthesia. So I decided to do something for it and face the situation based on its outcome. I searched the net and read the experiences of some people who got it healed without surgery. They had formed a mailing group to discuss about the hernia healing without surgery. I joined the group and did some of the exercises suggested by them. It was not of much use and I realized that the hernia had progressed much, though it was not causing any pain.

I again consulted the doctor and he told that I could go for the surgery if I wanted. Hence I decided to find a doctor who would do the surgery under local or regional anesthesia as I was scared of general anesthesia. Finally I found one and decided to go for it.

When it comes to stammering, I think, we should do whatever we can to improve the communication skill and accept the outcomes as they are.

Another point of the book which had struck me was ” Nonresistance, nonjudgment, and nonattachment are the three aspects of true freedom and enlightened living. When you become aware of the transience of all forms, your attachment to them lessens, and you disidentify from them to some extent.”

Previously I was resisting the idea of undergoing the surgery. I decided to change it and accepted it as a necessity. I think a PWS should also remove the resistance to stammering from his mind and accept it as a part of his life.

Then, I decided not to judge the situation as good or bad. Every situation has a reason and I decided to accept it as it is. Again most of the PWS brood over their issue and think that it is bad. If we can remove this mentality and accept it as it is, I think, it would be really useful.

The last point of nonattachment is about the transient nature of events. Nothing is permanent and every situation will change. Hence we should not get attached to anything; in this case it translates to thinking much about the result of the surgery. I think, for a PWS, if he can think less about stammering and concentrate on what he wants to do if the stammering was cured, it will make a big difference.

With these points I faced the surgery calmly and now I am recovered. Am I able to do the same with stammering? Not completely, but I am doing my best to move on that path!

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Post Author: Harish Usgaonker

8 thoughts on “Surgery


    (March 3, 2011 - 7:30 am)

    Very nice writeup !!!! I too am reading "The Power Of Now" by Eckhart Tolle and am enjoying every bit of it


    (March 3, 2011 - 9:47 am)

    great post sudheendhran, full of deep insights! try to write more often 😉


    (March 4, 2011 - 9:16 am)

    if he can think less about stammering and concentrate on what he wants to do if the stammering was cured, it will make a big difference.
    very well thought sudheendhran!!!


    (March 4, 2011 - 9:24 am)

    great writeup
    Nonresistance, nonjudgment, and nonattachment are perfect trio for a happy life (with or without stammering)


    (March 13, 2011 - 7:44 am)

    excellent post, sudheendran!!! hope you are doing fine, remember we met once in Bangalore?


    (March 14, 2011 - 5:09 am)

    Yes, Manohar, I do remember you


    (August 8, 2011 - 12:58 pm)

    tell me is there any operation or surgery type for remove stammering …..
    without speech tharapy system…..


    (August 8, 2011 - 3:07 pm)

    No, there are none!

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