Yes, We can speak well !!

This time delhi shg meeting was attended by four members. Parmendra,
Sikandar, Umesh and Arun (sorry picture is old). First We each set our motto about what I would try to
do during whole meeting. After a formal introduction with the group, Each of us
shared their feelings/change in feelings after attending SHG meetings/NC
and our parents perception about it. I have lot of new queries and emotions
which I was facing these days and eagerly waiting to share them. As Parmendra
started to share his emotions with his family life, almost all of my queries
melt down on that way. It was because I was not alone who was finding himself
in similar situation but others are also feeling the same. It is natural, as we
accept our stammering so why we became tensed to accept these phases of high and
low speech struggle in day to day life. 
          Sikander sir told us how positive
affirmations works, if we start to say ourselves that I can
communicate better no matter with stammering or what else, then our focus shift
automatically from the fear of speaking situation. After spending some time in
discussion at park, we went outside in crowd. We tried bouncing with unknowns. Arun was
quite afraid to do that but we pushed him again and again. Parmendra did a great
job to lead all of us. He was always in front to do any task like an
expert (I am afraid he is converting in j.p 🙂  First time in life, Arun talked to some
girls on the streets. He was quite nervous but at last he did this. I also got my answers. I was lot
of tensed about this thing that why I was struggling and forcing in my speech
even I am quite open about my stammering. I stutter openly in my class because I have told
them but still I was not satisfied because I was stuttering with forces to keep
myself fluent too. Then what is the benefit of stammering openly if we can’t
stammer with ease. We all know how to speak fluently but the thing that we don’t know is how to stammer without struggle. Depressing stuttering and fluency shaping techniques doesn’t work in the long run. Most important thing we have to learn is “how to Stammer openly but with ease”. I almost forgot the stammer
on purpose and bouncing. It is quite necessary to learn the technique
of stammer with ease. Thank god!! I got the point again. I again used to bounce with my friends and
in stores. Thanks to parmendra and Sikandar sir who always give me
immense motivation and strength. It was quite learning experience. We missed Lalit, Pinakin and Delhi shg hero Abhishek.

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  1. Sachin 7 years ago

    Great post! Yes, stammering easily is the core of "Stuttering modification" approach to therapy..
    Haklao – magar pyar se!

  2. admin 7 years ago

    Great job Delhi SHG. Well describe by you umesh, i like your's line "stammer openly only with ease". we always in so much hurry that we forgets some basic rules. We must follow those conventions.

  3. admin 7 years ago

    Delhi group I must say is one of the most lively group! Great report Umesh

  4. admin 7 years ago

    great meet delhi…delhi shg is very motivating….keep it up 🙂

  5. Govind 7 years ago

    hello evryone.. main bhi delhi se hun. nd i hve also stammering problm.. no one cn understand me. i wanna defeat my stammring. i feel alone in d whole world.. plz mujhe b apne delhi wale group me join kar lo bhaiyon. main bhi aap sab ki tarha he hun. nd theek hona chahta hun. jaise jaise lyf aage bad rhi h main kho sa rha hun. plzzz i request 2 evryone give me their nmbr. main delhi me he rahta hun. my nmbr is 09818536393.. plz evryone dnt ignore i vry serious nd w8ng 4 ur rply.. thanxxxxxx

  6. admin 7 years ago

    u can contact
    mr. umesh rawat 9068322345 or
    mr sikander singh 9810654407

  7. admin 7 years ago

    don't worry Govind…I will call u in evening. Nice to see the youngsters are coming in front.

  8. admin 7 years ago

    good umesh..delhi shg rocking again and again


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