A one who did something special with great courage is called
Hero, but as far as stutter concerned, we are doing this things in our
day-to-day life. Three days before, I met my very old friend (for approx 5-6yr).
After listening my story of struggle, guilt of stammering, he told me that “you
are living a life of hero”, I replied him “heroes life is much easier than
our”, but its really true somewhere that we are a heroes.
In recent few days I struggled a lot:-

Ø By giving more-n-more interviews.
Ø Buying books at shop (saying books name, arguing with shopkeeper to reduce the price)
Ø Bank works (Asking queries on enquiry counter, making DD e.t.c)

But all unsuccessful I can’t able to use any techniques at
that time. So I manage by writing those on a piece of paper. All people
watching like I am from another planet, on my mind I said “Dude its my style”.
If this happens before joining TISA, I surely
got dishearten and feels ashamed of myself. But now it’s ok to be failure sometime, at least I
am not going to blame myself.
Our life is full of pain from the very first hour we wake
till the last hour we sleep. As we got hard blocks we are trying our best to
say those freaking words, but failed. Its not about fail or pass, its totally
on “at least you try” like in hindi we say ‘Boond boond se hi sagar banta hai’.
So ‘experience se hi success ka rashta 
khulta hai’.
Its very hard to composed yourself at the time of hard
blocks, but once you understand your breathing behavior, I am sure you
definitely got some help from it (its my own experiences). If you control your breathing,
you somehow manage your stuttering at some extent.

Post Author: Harish Usgaonker

4 thoughts on “We are THE HEROES


    (April 20, 2012 - 4:14 am)

    Yes, Mohit- as long as you dont accept defeat, you are a hero. Common men and women are true heroes- minus the media hype. Stammering cant be CURED but can certainly be managed, as I and many other are doing day after day. Keep focusing on Communication which is 100 times more important than just fluency.. Keep trying. Many pws have helped themselves successfully.. Never give up..


    (April 20, 2012 - 4:27 am)

    Well said Brother..
    There is a HERO in everyone one us, some discover it and some do not..

    Your post reminded me of a beatiful A R Rehman song – http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7gAtJcECIgI

    Hum main hai Heroooo..
    Dil se kaho hum main hai hero..
    Milke kaho hum main hai hero..

    Hum main hai Herooooooo


    (April 20, 2012 - 1:05 pm)

    Nice Post bro 🙂
    We are Hero of our Life.
    We challenge the Challenges everyday in our Life. So we became Strong already by now.
    Only thing is only few realize this.
    We are Strong by days which we passed, So feel the Strength. We are already in race, half the way for Goal. Finish it off, Everyone finishes it but what matters is How you finish it 🙂 With Hope and Confidence.

    With Regards.


    (April 20, 2012 - 3:58 pm)

    Well done Mohit. It needs a lot of courage to share your true experiences with people

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