tried to follow up the workshop through emails, phone calls etc. in
spite of many constraints: shortage of time and other pressures.
There are signs of some changes: Some participants have become more
committed to attending SHG in their cities and some are in the
process of setting up a SHG in their area. And some are looking
forward to next workshop. Yet again, some have become more
knowledgeable and cognizant of the task at hand.
is a brief analysis of the feedback received from some (8)
participants. We tried to understand what has clicked and what needs
a rethink. Here is brief summary and excerpts from participants’
feedback received over emails.
had posed four questions:
Mention just two activities you liked most and give one or two line
reason why you liked them.
2. Mention just two activities you
found difficult or boring and give one or two line reason why so.
Two brief suggestions to improve these workshops.
4. Have you
adopted a new practice/ thought/ approach in life AFTER the
workshop? If yes, what? How?
Most people liked most of the
activities. Voluntary stuttering was found challenging by some- and a
“revolutionary” idea by some other. Most participants enjoyed
“change your partner every 2 minutes” activity, energizers,
formal presentations, Video recording and review, Stammering
participants thought more time should have been given to some
activities. Everyone was very happy with logistics, food (“Biryani”)
and other arrangements. After the workshop- back into “normal”
life- some were able to adopt one or two ideas from the workshop.
Some people had difficulty understandably. Here are some selected
activity i liked most was Energizer games when we have to suddenly
move to a new person for talking after a very short interval of time,
in this activity mind was running too fast- talking to person
suddenly plus taking care of all the technique. The activity i liked
was looking into persons eyes and speak. And favorite of all- was our
friends taking the survey (stammering interviews).
difficult activity i found was meditation, concentration for too long
i have adopted slow speaking in my daily
routine, and now i dont try to hide my stammering..
top 2 most likable activity certainly has to be meditation and the
opportunity to speak uninhibited in front of a crowd using block
of us long for an opportunity to go “full-throttle” and
speak when we know that the audience would not hold any kind of
prejudice against us.
most difficult ( rather embarrassing) activity was voluntary
of us stutter because we dont like to stutter.
Voluntary stuttering is a novel concept but I would rather rely on
speech correction mechanisms ( pre block,post block). Of course
I have mentally accepted that Stammering has no cure
and that I should not go over the moon when I do well and not
go into a shell when I stammer. In
other words stammering is our Alter ego and we should not be
ashamed of it when it rears its head intermittently.
activity was boring.
. As I already said, most of us are longing to
speak,speak and just speak. In a way we are like caged birds who are
longing for freedom from self imposed shackles. I
personally looked forward to this workshop for a
shot-in-the-arm and try and make the maximum out of the speaking
we can ask the participants before any workshop as to what they
expect from the workshop and then try and customize the workshop for
it will be a good takeaway. We could have sessions where all PWS are
made to speak at least for 15 minutes on any extempore topic using
all the block correction mechanisms on all the 3 days (we had it
on 2nd & 3rd day only).
could have an interview panel who would try and grill candidates and
check how they respond to them. In role play we could have PWS
enacting real life interviewers.
have accepted that stammering has no cure. I have stopped setting
“speech perfection” targets for myself. I dont brood when I
I “Stammer” like a rockstar.
liked most- Guided meditation – as i felt more awareness on breathing
while i was doing that. it will be nice if we introduce some more
minutes of guided meditation.
i adopted awareness in my breathing and feeling the vibrations of
vocal chords which is the gift i got by attending this workshop.
Bouncing technique–I feel comfortable to start feared words in front
of stranger rather than going in to a block in the starting word.
liked Voluntary stuttering—Before this, I used to try not to
stutter in front of people . But gradually I am using the technique
to desensitize myself. I feel this is a good technique for
difficult: Stammering interview-But after the interview my concept
toward normal speakers has been changed. I did not know that nobody
thinks much of our stammering…
after the workshop, I take one sentence and try to say it in
different manner –like bouncing, Stretching , in slow rate . After
two/three/four words I give relaxation to my breathing system and let
the air come in to recharge my self for next phrases.
stuttering and meditation were really helpful to me…No
activity was really boring . Enjoyed all activities including the
Hyderabadi biryaani !!!
i should confess that i have not been applying the techniques in day
to day situations. Although I am aware of this fact !!! Also
there is a desire deep within me to apply these techniques and I
realize that only hard work and the right and consistent effort will
give me results.
have understood, simply reading book and having knowledge regarding
stammering is not sufficient to recover..
you TISA! Thank you Hyderabad group..