me is an illusion , an art of harmless deception , an art to be the “
Sutradhar ” of time and space and others perception of all the elements the magician puts together !!
share few magic tricks which I practice to offset my
stammering instances . I use many tricks and create my own stage and
tools to strengthen myself ,and they have been effective to an large
extent , but the same
tricks may or may not be able to create similar illusions in the readers cases .
follow in not so specific order )
already by coming early and initiating talks with others
and telling them your name ,in fact you must have imprinted your name in
their minds simply by being a genuinely interesting character
and by doing so , you would have passed the codes and imaginary
connection between you , your name and what you do..so that every time they see
you , they can map you with your name and they can easily associate your
personality with your name . Trick : Be an Onion (Read
intelligence and as many GB’s of RAM as yours is 🙂 , so keep giving them continuous signals on both conscious and
unconscious levels , keep stimulating their brains .
your identity is your personality , because you cannot be offensive and drill
your ID into their psyche , that would be rude 🙂
to RD Burmans compositions in Raghav Sundar’s jeep from one of our
weekend rock climbing sessions I asked him , “ how can you be a
Mountaineer , A Para Glider , A rock Climber , Knowledgeable about music
, a good golf and snooker player , a world traveler , a great cocktail maker , a fantastic
conversationalist , an avid reader , Multi Lingual (Speaks French) , a blogger
, be a good father , Husband , doing supremely well professionally and
remaining an inspiration to many and play all these roles together and
keep adding more angles to yourselves .
Joy.. I am like an Onion , I cease to be one , if I do not continue to add
layers to myself ”
in my life , and whom I look up to ,not just for his ever evolving multi
layered personality , but his ability to remains humble and good despite his
herculean achievements in life .)
You would feel good about yourselves and feel
more equipped .
Your multi layers and their collective
experiences would have subtly made you wiser over the time .
You would be able to engage and talk to others
about multiple topics and would be able to identify with others experiences .
People would notice you for your extra
achievements and personality layers.
Your layer might be someone’s else’s layer too ,
and that means a connection becomes easier and organic between two
The more connect you have it becomes more easier
for the brain to relate a persons trait with his ID ,in this case your name.
Normal : If you are feeling that you would
be able to say your name smoothly..then go ahead…(The conversation with
others have already put you at ease )
1 : Instead of saying your name : Wish everyone …this should buy you time and
gain the momentum to say your name in the same flow .
2 : Wish everyone , say something witty
..may be about the gathering..the day..the venue..and just when you have got
the flow..say your name..
: Stand up ..and impromptu ..start by naming others…” he is vikas…,,she
is Dimple….and then when you get the flow..say your name..this should make
people laugh..and make the atmosphere light..and then you get into the
flow..and say your name..
4 : Tell your neighbor that your memory is failing you ..and he must tell your name
instead..seems funny..but would buy you time to find your flow..
you can go on creating new ideas to work the time and space to work for you as tools.
a perfect timing for humor to buy you time and flow is the trick..and you may
devise n number of situations …be the illusionist..be the Onion-keep adding
layers to your personality and most of all be the sutradhar !!!