We did generally all our meeting in same place as that place in middle of my home and Arun home and that place suitable for both of us. After meeting we did some general discussions as I was reading a book of “S-S-STAMMERING? : Easy ways to overcome fear & shame and speak well” book. Here we did some healthy discussion related to topics covered in the book. Also Arun Kumar taken the book to read.
First we decide to to drink tea but Arun Kumar suggest that before drink tea lets do some stranger talk first. First we saw around 3-4 persons sitting on the bench and drinking tea of kullar. We start talking to them about stammering that was very healthy discussion. The persons are very supportive. Then we drink kullar tea from a shop.
Then we start rooming here and there and visited to a book shop and Arun Kumar suggest to ask a book enquiry but shout from distance the book name. Before I start shouted Arun Kumar by own start shouting the book name.
Then we saw few persons sitting on the stairs of one institute and we visited for stammering interview. They are around 3-4 persons and the persons are very motivating and knowledgeable. They are trying the UPSC exams from many years. While talking we feel they done many things in their life like they give many examples of play they experiences and how play in similar of stammering how play will help PWS. They also suggest many thing how we can overcome our stammering like we have to speak always slowly, easily etc. They give many examples of how a small kid learn a complete language even a adult person also take time a new language and the normal adult too also do stammering many times while speaking a new language that he is not familiar. They also give many examples that a normal person also does stammering many times if we give some difficult task to him. So stammering is ok. That discussion takes around more than 45 minutes and we not judge the time.
Then we eat momos near by shop and decide to leave. We only did two stammering interviews only but that two stammering interviews only take more than 1 hour. Complete meeting was more than 2 hours.
Shailender Kumar Vinayak