As adviced by a speech therapist i am trying to maintain a slow and constant rate of speech . But i am not able to do it properly even after trying it for 2 months and my speech therapist and even i am upset. He told speech is voluntary so why you are not able […]
It was another great SHG MeetUp, its a Diwali Weekend so people are busy in stations to reach their destinations 🙂 We were only two members(Mahipal and myself) for the meetUp. When we are able to manage how to communicate with others and get things done then no matter if we stammer or doesn’t stammer. […]
I wish all my TISA family members a very happy and prosperous Depawali. May we all get down easy with our stammering.
Many months ago i went to a pyschiatric and he told me to start morning walk . So i woke up at 6 am and went to park and found there were so many people so i came back . Next day i woke up at 5 am and again people were there so i […]
दीपावली भारतीय समाज का प्रतिनिधि पर्व है। यह पर्व खुशिओं की सौगात लेकर आता है। हर कोई उत्साह और उमंग का अनुभव करता है। इस अवसर पर दीपक का खास महत्त्व है। इसके बिना दिवाली अधूरी है। दिया जलता है, संसार को रोशन करने के लिए, लेकिन उसे कई चुनौतिओं का सामना करना पड़ता है। […]
Has anything we’ve done made our life better? There was a moment, when I used to blame everything and everyone for all the pain and suffering and vile things that happened to me.Used to blame everybody. Blamed society, blamed God. I didn’t get no answers ‘cause I was asking the wrong questions’. You have to […]
Finally (yes, FINALLY!) Pramendra and me are about to launch our online store (ssstore.in). This has been a very long, uncertain, most of the times uncomfortable and unnerving journey of last one year. But it is leading to something very meaningful as I can see. The whole experience has been very enriching – Having to […]
Arise, awake, and stop not till the goal is reached Hello all, Last week we had awesome neetup. Report of last meetup is here http://bit.ly/UzHuJ5 And I am excited to share good news with all of you, I talked to city editor of “The Hindu” newspaper and we will he having reporter with us this […]
Hi Friends, Last week we had bus ka sawaari and this week’s special is ??? Not revealed 🙂 come and experience it 🙂 Hope you are doing Excellent. Its time for getting ready for Weekend SHG meeting in Hyderabad. Every single minute we spend here is going to be productive and helps you face boldly. Here We […]
दुःख पर ध्यान दोगे तो हमेशा दुःख रहोगे, सुख पर ध्यान देना शुरू करो। दअसल, तुम जिस पर ध्यान देते हो वह चीज सक्रिय हो जाती है। ध्यान सबसे बड़ी कुंजी है। दुख को त्यागो। लगता है कि तुम दुख में मजा लेने वाले हो, तुम्हें कष्ट से प्रेम है। दुख से लगाव होना एक रोग है, यह […]
Dear all, Hope you are doing good and enjoying the onset of winter. I just returned today morning from “Diversity and Inclusion in Asia” event of community business (http://www.communitybusiness.org/D&Iconf/2012/). It was a great event where very senior HR and business leaders from some very reputed firms like google, american express, coca cola, Standard Chartered, Goldman […]
Hate is baggage. Life’s too short to be pissed off all the time, It’s just not worth it. Hello all, So winter has started in north India and I am missing winter season in Lucknow like any thing as I saw Vishal wearing sweater in pic of Delhi SHG report. Here is report of another […]
I have come across so many stammerers in my life , mostly after joinning Tisa . I found that stammering is a more major issue or problem for severe stutterers like me where we struggle at almost every word we speak unlike the mild or moderate stutterers . Some ex or mild or moderate stammerer […]
This weekend SHG was the best SHG meeting we had in Hyderabad till date. We went on roads for practicing voluntary stuttering and we also visited to Golconda Fort (a historic place to visit in Hyderabad) on buses by taking ticket by our own 🙂 Today we had a new member named “Rahul”, he is […]
Dear all, During NC at Coorg, I have spoken and interacted about ‘ACCEPTANCE‘ of stammering for one hour. I want to share some more ways of acceptance in this group for the benefit of those who had not attended the NC at Coorg.A lot have been talked about acceptance of stammering in this forum […]
I had lots of doubts and myths before taking decision to go for workshop at Herbertpur. But it was Dr Sachin whom I believed blindly and plunge into this. But still I was thinking till last moment that why the hell I am going there after all my […]
Good Day Wishes My Dear Friends!!! Hope you are doing Excellent. Its time for getting ready for Weekend SHG meeting in Hyderabad. Every single minute we spend here is going to be productive and helps you face boldly. Here We Stammer with Ease 🙂 It is proved that if we stammer with easiness then stammering […]
Herbertpur communication workshop (27-29 oct.) मेरी तीसरी TISA workshop थी । TISA की हर workshop मुझे आईना दिखाती है कि अभी मैं कहाँ खडा हूँ और किस दिशा में कितना काम (either on speech disorder or on social disorder) करना अभी शेष है । सचिन सर ने बताया कि बंद कमरे में अकेले मे जब PWS अपने आप से बात करता है तब तो नहीं हकलाता वो तो लोगो से मेलजोल में हकलाता है इसलिये ये एक बीमारी (speech disorder) तो नहीं है । क्या ऐसी बीमारी की दवा हो सकती है जो अकेले में (बंद कमरे में) ठीक है और जैसे ही लोगों के बीच आये बीमारी शुरु हो जाती है । इसलिये हकलाहट एक speech disorder से ज्यादा एक social disorder है । डा. मार्था ने बताया कि बचपन मे जब कोई घटना घटती है तो उसकी प्रतिक्रिया मे हम जिस प्रकार की भावनाएं emotions प्रकट करते हैं , आगे जाकर वो भावनाएं उस घटना के लिये स्वतः ही प्रकट होने लग जाती है, एक fix pattern बन जाता है । और वो भावनाएं अवचेतन मन से हमें नियंत्रित करने लगती हैं । now that emotions controls us, instead of we should control that event. Like in stammering case, in childhood Someone laughed on our stammering and we felt shame, hatred, fear or guilty. Slowly slowly this pattern fixed in […]
नमस्कार दोस्तों, आज (28/10/2012) जब मैं आज SHG मीटिंग के वेन्यु पर पंहुचा तो मुझे आश्चर्य हुआ की आज कोई भी उपस्थित नहीं था. थोड़ी देर तक मैं यूँ ही बैठकर सोचता रहा की ऐसा कैसे हो सकता है की कोई भी व्यक्ति न आये!! सिकंदर और सचिन सर कहतें हैं की किसी विशेष परिश्थिति […]
I found that somehow day two of Herbutpur workshop could not be posted successfully on our blog so i am hereby posting it again….. Day two started at 7.00.AM with meditation session on request of some PWS. Mr lalit Pandey who also joined with four more PWS, guided us in meditation. As a beginner we […]