Hello all.
I am M K harsh from Bhopal.
Today , we had conducted the SHG meeting in the morning hours from 9 am to 11 am .
Today , our meeting was very special. We had discussed on the core topics that revolve in the mind of every stammerer.
I raised the question that, what is after acceptance ?
This is one of the most basic question because we are attending the meetings, workshops, conferences on a daily basis but if we are not getting improvement then there is no point of that .
So , Jagdish mewada sir had given a very interesting answer that see, we have to accept our stammering but even after accepting, our confidence remains low then that is not acceptance .
We have to work on how effectively we can put forward our point rather than how fluently we can put forward our point. Then we had a nice discussion on what is beyond acceptance.
We also had done many activities like stranger talk , Calling a friend etc.
All in all it was a great and an informative meeting .
Thanks for reading very patiently
MK harsh
Bhopal SHG
2 thoughts on “Bhopal SHG Diwali meetup”
Satyendra
(November 4, 2018 - 2:24 pm)This reminds me another discussion… a Zen matter was asked: what after enlightenment?
He gave a very simple answer: Same old stuff, nothing new. You still have to fill water and chop wood…
Then, why should one seek enlightenment?
The master said: outwardly everything is same but inner consciousness is transformed…
You don’t grow wings or a horn on your head, because you are enlightened.. but now you know that there is no difference in this work or that work… so life goes on as usual but a deep change has come.
This applies to us too. Many of us have a rosy eyed view: After acceptance, I will be speaking like so and so and will have many gf!
Alas, this is a very superficial understanding and practice of acceptance… dive deep.
M k harsh
(November 4, 2018 - 2:45 pm)Yes, sachin sir absolutely true.
Acceptance is a vast topic.
I had easily mentioned on my social media platforms that I am a stammerer but later I realised that it is a good step but we have to come out of the virtual world.
If in the real world I am not accepting then there is no point in shouting on all social media platforms that I am a stammerer.
Yes, Acceptance is very vast topic and I have to dive very deep in it 🙂